16th November 2016

Grace To Be Who You Are 

“We do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are not wise.”
2 Corinthians 10:12 (NIV)

I enjoy riding a bicycle for exercise and try to ride almost every day. One day this past summer, believe it or not, it rained—in the summer, in California! It wasn’t really rain, but there was enough moisture I decided not to ride. I don’t have rain gear and didn’t want to get wet. Not that I’m afraid I’ll melt, I just don’t like going out in the elements without the proper clothing. so, not wanting to miss a workout, I pulled out an old exercise DVD.

I started to laugh as Tony Little (an American TV fitness celebrity) appeared on the screen, telling me to “Conceive, believe and achieve.” I used to work out regularly with Tony and realized I’ve missed his wit and wisdom. As we started into a nice stretch for the back, Tony reminded me to go only as far as I can go. “Well, of course,” I always say. What else does he expect?

Tony may not realize it, but he has hit upon an essential element of grace. As we each work our way through life, we can only go as far as we are able. We may see someone achieving something wonderful and think, “I should be doing that.” But if or when we can’t, we may become discouraged and may even give up. We compare ourselves to others, then judge and condemn ourselves. Or others may judge and condemn us because they feel we should be more like them.

The grace we receive from God and in turn extend to others and ourselves, allows us to go at our own pace, fall down and get up again, without fear of condemnation. God knows our weaknesses and faults. He knows our strengths and abilities. He doesn’t expect everyone to look alike, act alike or be in the same place in their growth.

God values our unique personalities, and his grace gives us room to be who we are. We can be happy we have different gifts and talents and give glory to him as we use them to serve him and others. How can we do less for each other? Just as we have received forgiveness and are learning to extend it in return, so we are to honour and respect each other by showing grace in our everyday interactions.

Paul was careful to stay away from making comparisons in the header scripture. Even nature teaches us each star, tree, flower, animal—everything—has its value, glory and purpose. Each of us has value and purpose, with our own unique place in the world. We have the freedom to do what we do best and not worry about what we can’t do.

God’s grace is a marvellous gift and touches every part of our lives. Go as far as you can go and may his grace be with you on the way.

Thank you, God, for your grace that gives us the freedom to be who we are and not have to worry about measuring up to others’ values.

Study by Tammy Tkach


tammytkachAbout the Author:
Tammy Tkach is the wife of Grace Communion President, Joseph Tkach, and resides in California, USA. Tammy is GCI Women’s Ministry Support Co-Ordinator and editor of Connections, an ezine for women in ministry.

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